I possess over-the-top confidence in my marriage, and I have been married to my best friend for over 25 years. We were in the lifestyle for over 10 years, then we both spent about 9+ years recovering from medical issues from an accident. Since I’m married to an angel, and she’s still recovering from injuries, she encouraged me to sign up as a “single” swinger with a hall pass until she’s recovered and then we can do it together. My wife gave me her permission to play solo. My Lifestyle is Private and discretion is VERY important. We have many friends in this area. We strongly believed that our play should not be in our living area of Lane County, and we separated our vanilla group of friends from our lifestyle friends. Our past lifestyle connections were with people who were not from the Lane County area. We are now comfortable with people in this area, but we still feel privacy and discretion about interactions is still number 1!!! I am a very positive, gentleman, respectful, and polite person and I try to think about other people before I respond to situations. I am considerate and attentive to a woman’s needs, and I engage in a conversation with an active attitude. Maybe old school, but I am genuinely interested in what you have to say, and I look straight into your eyes when anyone is talking. I am very social, true to my word and true to myself. If I tell you that I am going to do something, I will do it. I am self-confident, and we/I are financially sound. People have told us/me I’m an attractive male, fit body, in physical shape, and enjoy a healthy lifestyle. I enjoy humor and enjoy laughing at smartass comments. I am only interested in friends/sex partners who are clean, shaved, intelligent, have great hygiene, smell delicious, dress and make-up in a way that lets people know you care how you look. HWP, positive attitude, and no STDs. Despite the long, long, long set back from medical issues which has resulted in life changes, we/I still maintain a positive upbeat life. I am happy with my wife, our life from the beginning to now, and we believe we only have “One life to live”. If I meet some of your positive desires, please reach out to me for a chat.