hi ! i'm 1/2 japanese, 1/2 caucasian, 5'7", 170lbs, 44 years old (but look like i'm in my late 30s ). i'm the boy next door, who has a heart of gold. i love asian culture (language,food,clothing, etc.) ,but do not limit myself to it. i like to learn about other cultures,people, and traditions as well. i am a quiet per. i prefer to live a calm life, and strive for peace in this often hectic and chaotic world. i LOVE movies. i usually go once a week,so if you want to go as movie buddies, let me know ;-) none of my friends are as movie crazed as i am, so i'm always looking for people to go with. if i can't find anyone, i'll go on my own. and yes, i absolutely love chick flicks too (mona lisa smile, serendipity, kate and leopold, the prince and me, sweet home alabama, are some of my favs). my style is best described as the don john (ny Crockett) in miami vice. i love dressing in all black or all white, but often mix and match. a baggy dress shirt, t-shirt, slacks and slip on shoes are what i'm most comfortable in. the 80's style. i also wear jeans, sweats, shorts, slippers, and oxfords. i tend to change with how i feel that day. i love various types of music. the 30-40s big band, 50-60s rock and roll, the 80's,etc are all eras i enjoy. the beatles, elvis, and all of the 80's musicians are top on my list. my passion is the martial arts. my mother started me in the martial arts as a means to defend myself. that has grown into more of a self discipline practice. i've practiced judo, karate, aio, etc. i've been in various martial arts for over 22years, however, i've been practicing my current art for over 12 years. i work in playa del rey, practice aio in long beach, and live in gardena. they say men peak sexually in their mid 20s ; i seem to be the opposite. i'm more sexually hungry now in my 40s . women of all ages really turn me on. i'm not just about rip your clothes off and take you, although that can be fun. i love to be sensual. when a women is in the mood, and she gently caresses you with her foot, or slides next to you gently rubbing here cleavage on you is really exciting. the gentle touch if you know what i mean. when i watch porn the most exciting part is the beginning. when a man strips a a woman. when he slides her panties off and you can see the pleasure in her eyes. that to me is more exciting than the act of grinding, although that's fun too. i think today too much is shown too fast. although we all want it, where's the mystery if all is shown too fast. seeing a woman's cleavage while still in a bikini, bra, low cut blouse, or sexy dress lets my imagination run wild. even looking at a woman's painted toe nails, tiny ankles, and slim calves are so sensual. the eyes and lips of a woman are beautiful, but her neckline is much more sensual. i think when we're young, we just want to bang. when we get older, we appreciate building up to the moment before climax. everything is important. it's not about sleeping with many people. it's about spending 100% of your attention with one woman at a time. to let her know you desire her, even if you're not exclusive. i think women are sexy creatures. its not about wham bam thank you mam, it's about can i bring you pleasure. can we share a moment which both of us will enjoy and remember. i took a photo with a celebrity (one of the blacked out pics i posted in my profile). everyone was hanging on her (respectfully) in her pics. i gently touched the small of her back , ever so lightly, just enough. she made a verbal gesture, quickly turned and looked at me like wow, that's different. that's what i like. when a drop dead gorgeous woman who's adored by all notices a difference. when you can turn a head like that, that's a moment. that's sensual. not rude, not graphic, just unusually sensual :) not everyone can be as beautiful, skinny or popular as celebrities, but to make a women feel like she's the only one on the planet, that's what i like.

Mi persona ideal: i like all types of women. old, young, skinny, voluptuous , full figured. i tend to prefer asians, hispanic, blonds, petite, but there are always exceptions. sometimes i find women outside of my norm to be extremely attractive and sensual ; maybe it's their individual personality which draws my attention.

i generally prefer non-smokers. milfs and young women both excite me. attitude i think is important. a good attitude. someone i want to be around, not just in bed, but in life. i guess i have to like you as a person. if i don't like you, why would i want to please you and bring you pleasure. be a good person and i'll do the same. although i don't want to be a home wrecker, i do find women who aren't getting any at home extremely attractive. men take women for granted. sometimes when people are together for too long, they feel unappreciated and look elsewhere. i think women should be appreciated. i don't want to replace the man in your life, but if being your fantasy helps your home life, i don't see a problem with it. if it has the opposite affect, then maybe not.

if you can't tell, i love touching, especially the gentle caress.
especially in public. i don't mean groping. full on groping is probably best in private. the gentle caress of a woman's breast , just the slightest almost accidental touch, very exciting. subtle, unseen, tantalizing . it lets a woman know she's desired, which in turn cause her to feel sexy. that's awesome!

bottom of the line is you women are extremely sexy and sensual, but you have to be genuine and be a good person. i'm a sexual and sensual guy. are we a good fit? let me know.