I am a self sufficient grown man, meaning I'm not always available to chat or to meet. Although I'm on this site does not mean I am desperate, so unlike others I will not spam you, or try to go out my way to convince you of anything. I am aware of my worth and hold myself to standards as any respectable adult should. I've had fantasies of being with older women but my experience with this site is making me think otherwise. I love to laugh so I joke a lot, if that's a problem then keep being the way you are. Laughter is good for the soul!